Why is it that when we go through trials, we tend to keep them to ourselves? For me, I think it's the thought that compared to the trials that others are going through, mine really aren't that bad. Another reason may be that I don't want others to think I am feeling sorry for myself by sharing my problems and hardships with them. Or it may be that people have their own problems to worry about, and they don't need to be burdened with ours.
The reason this has been on my mind is because I found out two weeks ago that I have an ectopic pregnancy (tubal pregnancy). Luckily we caught it early, but the emotional and physical toll it has taken on me is exhausting.
After trying to decide whether or not I should share this with anyone, I realized that having the support of family and friends would only make it easier, and it has. Also, if anyone that knows me has to deal with the same thing in the future, they will know they can come to me for support.
We have come a long way and I am feeling much better. We have been able to avoid surgery so far, and it looks like the treatment they gave me is working the second time around. Thanks to everyone that has been here for me, I really appreciate all of you, especially those that have been willing to watch Taylor during my doctor visits. I am grateful that Adrian has been the best husband ever through all of this, thanks.
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Let us know if we can help at all. Taylor is always welcome here! I am sorry that you have to go through this. You are such a strong person and example to everyone and I am sure that your courage in sharing this will help someone else.
natalie, I went this same experience in may and also wondered whether to share. I am so glad that medication is doing its job and hope you can avoid surgery. Take it easy and know that there is always someone out there that has been in a similar situation if you have questions!
I sure hope your OK. we are always willing to help too! just like what Rachel said, sometimes sharing what your going through may help someone else you may not even know is suffering!
You have such a great perspective on things, and I'm sure sharing what you're going through will be a help to others. Still, I'm sorry you have to go through it. My thoughts and prayers (and babysitting skills, if you need them) are here for you as you heal. Take care!
Natalie- I'm so sorry for this difficult situation and am glad that things are improving. I think that you are very brave and strong to share this with others. thinking about you and your family
Hi Natalie-
I was so sorry to hear about your health problems. I know what you mean about sharing your trials with those around you. I feel the same way most of the time, but I know that friendships and support are what help us make it through the tough times. I hope that you are feeling okay and that everything will be resolved quickly.
love ya, lindsay
Nat,
Recently, someone told me that they hate blogs because after reading them, they always think, "Why isn't my life perfect like that person's?" and then they feel bad and sad. After hearing that comment, it made me really think about why we portray ourselves the way we do. Why don't we admit when we are suffering? Why do we portray our lives as "perfect" and "happy," even when they're not? For whatever reason, we are hesitant to share who we truly are. There are very few people that I feel comfortable sharing my "real" self with...all my stress, insecurities, etc. I am so grateful to have you in Buffalo because you ARE one of the people who I feel truly knows ME and all of my weaknesses, but you love me anyway. I can tell you anything! Thank you for being my friend. And thank you for sharing your trials with me...I hope you know that you ALWAYS can, even if it's just a bad day.
Wow Nat, I'm so sorry! I'm glad you shared that with us, that was a brave thing to do. I hope things just get better from here.
i'm so sorry natalie. i hope things with the meds go ok and that you can avoid surgery. we'll keep you in our prayers and please never hesitate to bring taylor over here. crew is always happy to have another little guy to play with. good luck with everything.
Natalie, so sorry to hear about all of this. Hope you are doing okay. I'm thinking about you.
Oh Natalie, I am so sorry. Thank goodness you caught this early and that things are working out alright. Hooray for modern medicine that can do all this.
Everything happens for a reason, look at how many people you have touched all ready. Thank you for sharing, I hope that you are feeling better soon.
Natalie, I am sorry to hear about your experience. Please let me know if there is anything you need. I am very glad to read that the medication is working.
natalie, I just found out tonight about all that you have been going through. I am so sorry!
I hope you are starting to feel better.
Oh, Natalie. I've been reading your blog for many months now, in complete anonymity and obscurity. It has been so fun to watch your little family blossom, and to know that, even though you are in Buffalo, I am still somewhat connected to you and your friendship. I am so sorry that you two are dealing with this right now. You both have incredibly loving families, and I know that they will help you through this difficult time. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I think of you often, and am praying for your emotional (and physical) well-being today.
Love always,
jarica
Natalie,
I remember a few years ago when I received an email from my mission "mom" telling me her first born was born still born and thinking, "She is one of the only people I know in the world that would take this experience and become more like the Savior though it."
Now my mission "daughter" is going through a somewhat similar experience, and I cannot help and think of how strong you are and how close you are to our Heavenly Father. He knows you and is there for you... and you know that.
My prayers are with your little family during this hard trial.
natalie,
i just read your blog and i'm so sorry to hear that. you will be in my prayers, i just know that everything will turn out alright for you!
ashlee
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